Emotional Development Lab at Lehigh University
How do children learn about themselves, others, and relationships? Although there are likely multiple influences that shape children’s early social and self understanding, our research focuses mostly on relational influences. Right from the start, children find themselves in intense emotional relationships that provide them with a rich environment in which they learn about themselves and others. We focus on trying to understand how aspects of these close relationships, including both broad relational qualities (such as attachment security) and more specific relational process (such as mother-child discourse), relate to children’s emotional understanding, moral development, self understanding, and representations of relationships.
Parent-child conversations and children's emotional and moral development
For young children, conversations with parents help to make explicit the hidden, and often confusing psychological world that underlies behavior, relationships, and self-understanding (such as emotion and intention). Second, conversations with parents provide a way in a child can exchange information about (and ultimately compare) their shared emotional and relational experiences with others. As a result, there are good reasons to believe that discourse between parents and children is one avenue through which preschool children construct an understanding of relationships, emotions, and morality. Therefore, differences in the ways in which mothers choose to discuss emotional, moral, and relational issues likely have important consequences for a child’s construction of understanding. Thus, our research has focused on trying to understand how differences in the content, style, and affect (or tone) of mother-child discourse relate to young children’s construction of emotional and moral understanding. In addition, we are interested in factors that predict the quality of conversations between parents and young children about emotions and morality (including child temperament and attachment security).
For older children and adolescents, conversations with parents (especially surrounding moral dilemmas such as bullying) become one important way in which moral values are communicated to children. Conversations about moral issues likely make children aware of the needs of others and encourage children to reflect upon the moral messages that parents transmit in these conversations. Furthermore, parents often use inductive techniques when discussing real moral transgressions (i.e., they discuss the effect of the child’s actions on others) and this too likely promotes moral understanding. Therefore, there are good reasons to believe that conversations about moral dilemmas are important contexts in which moral values are socialized and we are currently exploring this issue in a study with mothers and adolescents (between the ages of 13-16).
The structure of conscience
Proactive regulation: The prevention of misbehavior
Despite arguments by several socialization theorists that the parent’s use of proactive regulatory techniques likely benefit the child and the parent, research on the influence of parental use of proactive regulation and children’s socialization outcomes has been limited. As a result, we are attempting to study how proactive prevention of children’s misbehavior relates to children’s conscience (or moral development), compliance with parental requests, emotion regulation, and the quality relationship between the parent and child.
Moral extensivity and children's racial and gender attitidues
Deborah Laible, Ph.D.
Clare van Norden
Laible, D., McGinley, M., Carlo, G., Augustine, M., & Murphy, T. (in press). Does engaging in prosocial behavior make you see the world through rose colored glasses? The links between social information processing and prosocial behavior, Developmental Psychology.
Murphy, T. M., & Laible, D. J. (in press). The influence of attachment on preschool children’s empathic responding, International Journal of Behavioral Development.
Laible, D. & Thompson, R., & Froimson (in press). Early socialization: The influence of close relationships. In J. Grusec & P. Hastings (Eds.), Handbook of Socialization (Rev. Ed.). New York: Guilford.
Laible, D. & Karahuta, E. (in press). Prosocial behaviors in early childhood: Helping others, responding to the distress of others, and working with others. In L. Padilla-Walker & G. Carlo (Eds.), The Complexities of Raising Prosocial Children: An Examination of the Multidimensionality of Prosocial Behaviors. New York, NY: Oxford University Press.
Laible, D. & Murphy, T. (in press). Constructing moral, emotional, and relational understanding in the context of mother-child reminiscing. In Weinraub, C. & Recchia, H. (Eds), Talking about Right and Wrong: Parent-Child Conversations as Contexts for Moral Development. New York: Cambridge University Press.
Laible, D., Murphy, T., & Augustine (2013). Constructing emotional and relational understanding: The role of mother-child reminiscing about negatively-valenced events, Social Development, 22, 300-318.
Laible, D. & Murphy, T., & Augustine, M. (2013). Predicting the quality of mother-child reminiscing surrounding negative emotional events at 42- and 48-months, Journal of Cognition and Development, 14, 270-291.
Murphy, T. & Laible, D. (2012). Attachment and empathy: The mediating role of emotion regulation, Merrill Palmer Quarterly, 58, 1-21.
Panfile, T. M., Laible, D. J., Eye, J. L. (2012). Conflict frequency between mother-child dyads across contexts: The links with attachment security, Early Childhood Research Quarterly, 27, 147-155.
Laible, D. (2011). Does it matter if preschool children and mothers discuss positive vs. negative events during reminiscing? Links with attachment, family emotional climate, and socioemotional development, Social Development, 20, 394-411.
Laible, D., Carlo, G., Panfile, T., Eye, J., Parker, J. (2010). Emotionality and emotion regulation: A person-centered approach to predicting socioemotional adjustment in young adolescents, Journal of Research on Personality, 44, 621-629.
Laible, D., Panfile, T., & Makariev, D. (2008). The quality and frequency of mother-toddler conflict: Links with attachment and temperament. Child Development. 79, 426-443.
Laible, D. & Carlo, G., & Eye, J. (2008). Dimensions of conscience development in mid-adolescence: Links with temperament and parenting, Journal of Youth & Adolescence, 37, 875-887.